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Originally Posted by Stray_Bullet
Well... for a girl's perspective, would you hate it if your boyfriend walked in on you using a sex toy? Granted... more people look at porn than people who have sex toys, but there's still a population.
But, back to porn. When more than one person looks at porn together, it's probably because they're curious, not horny. I've been in the same room as my girlfriend while we (and another person) were browsing some porn. All pants were still on.
Porn is either embarassing because one doesn't like masturbating in front of anyone, or because they don't want anyone feeling jealous. Now... just about everyone masturbates, so thinking realistically one shouldn't be jealous.
There is an excepetion that Jeep's Slave used as her arguement against porn. Porn gives men a "false image" of the female body. OK, the majority of porn gives a false image, yet there's also porn with real bodies. Would that still make a woman jealous?
Then again, the same could be said about any media. Women on television, magazines, and movies, are generally more beautiful than the average girl on the street. Is it because a man can't see her nipple or between her thighs that he doesn't set high standards for himself? Is porn significantly different?
I can respect people who say "porn is bad." But I think porn is like anything else pleasurable. If you want something, you want the best you can get your hands on, realistically.
And Canyarion... I think it takes more than porn to end a relationship.
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You are exactly right on every count. +rep for that.
Porn gives me an unreal perception of the female body? I don't think so. I see real femals every day, and I understand what they look like. Porn isn't going to make me think all girls have a tiny waste and large breasts, because I see REAL femals every day. Plus, it makes the porn that features real stuff that much more precious.
