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Originally Posted by jeepnut's slave
It is an issue that comes up because he complains a lot about us not doing stuff with other people (when we hang out it is usually just the two of us), because its dificult to make plans with people. So when an opportunity arises to hang out with people, we're all over it. But it is usally a situation when he wants to go with out me. So I'm left not doing anything because it comes up so late that I can't call up the girls to do something.
But you guys have a point, about him just wanting some time alone. That is what he was saying too. I guess I lost this argument then, huh?
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you cant lose in an 'arguement' like this one...
I wont pretend to speak for 'all guys', but when it comes to me, time with the boys is necessary. If I spent a large majority of time with females (no matter how much I loved them), it would eventually drive me nuts. There has to be balance, IMO. Poker nights are a godsend.
The best advice I can give is to NOT take it personally, because it's not a reflection of his feelings towards you.