Me, too. I wanted to go back and reread them all, but I knew that would take over my life for the next month. So instead I went to Google and searched for "half blood prince discussion" and found a couple good ones that got me thinking about these ideas. All the details of rereading the books, a fraction of the time.
Wikipedia also has good stuff about it.
I'm a casual reader, too, except to the extent that I go online to look for stuff and to talk about it. I barely know who Regulus is!
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Yeah, that's the one thing that's keeping me from believing it. You would have to twist the prophecy around it to make it fit, such as perhaps Harry can't live his own normal life until Voldemort dies, and Voldemort, after all the rest of the horcruxes are destroyed, can't live unless Harry dies and the last horcrux in Harry is brought back as him.... Yikes, that's what i mean by twisting.
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