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Originally Posted by Professor S
When her crisis ends, the cuddling will stop and she'll act like nothing ever happened.
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Now ain't that a depressing thought.
Anyway, I'll just add that I think these kinds of situations depend not only on her and what you feel (or don't feel) for her but also on your general temperament. For example, I am a physically very reserved person. All my friends know that if I so much as hug a girl, she must be one of my two or three very best friends if not my actual girlfriend. On the other hand, one of my other friends is very outgoing. He likes to hug, and he will also often put his arm around a person or hold their shoulders while talking to them. I wouldn't mind if he did that to my girlfriend because he does that to
everybody. It's just the way the two of us are.
And then you've got the Europeans who kiss each other all the time as greetings, but that's another story.
Don't overthink the situation, but I do think you ought to consider how much physical contact you like to get in a normal situation. That's a clue to how your interaction with this particular girl is perceived by others (and by her).