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Originally Posted by Bond
That's not exactly what I meant. I simply mean that over anaylzing this kind of situation is going to get you no where fast. You have two options: do something or do nothing at all. Stop talking about it to other people and yourself. Be a man and talk to her.
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I've avoided this thread thusfar but Bond's almost got it.
Stop looking for a relationship and just start looking for a friend. If it doesn't work out, who cares. Don't ever lay your heart on the line like you're planning to do because you'll never win. Women will immediately lose their attraction to you if you act like that. Just hang out with her more and more - eventually she'll get the message that you like her. Everybody who's ever said "be yourself" has got it exactly right. Be yourself. Don't be a guy who's looking for a relationship. You wouldn't act that way with your best friend, would you? That would just be weird, right? Exactly.
Be yourself. Man up. Start talking to her like the friend she IS and not a potential soul mate.