[Szymon]

Okay sure.

A friend from work convinced me to take some ball room dance classes with her at her university. It was a fun, we danced, the instructor told me I was doing good, and I met a pretty girl. She was quiet and shy and we danced a couple of times but never really talked. At the end of the last class I was nervously going to ask her for a phone number or anyway at all to contact her after the classes (based on the way she smiled and blushed when we danced, I got the feeling she may have been into me as well) but as I approached her to ask her this, I overheard her speaking to the instructor about doing another class just for her floor.

So after their conversation is over I speak up and jokingly propose that she contact me if she needed more guys to even out the class as there are usually fewer guys than girls. She agrees emphatically and we work out that facebook would be the easiest way to stay in contact. So after a couple of days she did ask me to come out. We had a fun lesson, she was still blushing and shy but I think I heard her growl a bit at her friend who tried to dance with me. Things went pretty well and I told her I would stay in contact.

So eventually I asked her to the movies, after 2 or 3 days. This would be our first time not around a group of friends and I figured we would get to know each other. So we walk around a bit before the movie starts and we're chatting about our lives and hobbies and stuff and I realize that we're not really chatting, I'm doing most of the talking. So I start asking her about herself and she doesn't really have much to say. I figured she was just a little shy or nervous but it continued that way after the movies too. I did find out that she's an English major and that she hates computers (which practically broke my heart, as I am a computer technician and systems administrator and I love computers.)

I told myself I would give her another shot, maybe she's really truly shy, and needs more time to relax around me. I sent her some messages via facebook, which she rarely checks due to her hatred of computers. This was early December, and she said she was really busy until January so I took it as a sign that she probably lost interest in me. I told her that I would probably see her when dance classes started again in January but they've been cancelled by the instructor.

I haven't really contacted her since.

Sooo what is the point of all this? The point is that I need to know what to do. Should I leave her a message or call her or is she a lost cause?