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Originally Posted by Teuthida
Yeah sure. I was being very one sided.
Well I actually met her through him. At the time he was pining for her but she wasn't into him so they just remained friends. He has more female than male friends anyway. And I'm pretty sure this trip of theirs is platonic.
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He was pining for her? Does he have a penis? If this trip is platonic it's not his decision, it's hers, and he simply has no game.
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The two of them started seeing each other very frequently. Whenever I asked what they've been up to, they were always with each other. They both said they liked hanging out with each other for support coming off their relationships. Meanwhile I had no one to talk to. I felt a bit betrayed with all my time spent helping him get over his breakup while he just hung out with my ex.
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Even if this is platonic, how is it right? He decides to spend all his time with
your ex-girlfriend to get over his break-up? And she is hanbging out with HIM even though you didn't maintain a friendship??? Explain to me how this guy can call himself your friend? This sounds absurd at face value.
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And then they take this trip that I was suppose to go on that we've been talking about doing for years. It's like they both replaced me with each other.
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He's a dick in a glass case. When in need of dick, she'll break the glass.
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I kind of wish he was just a dick and went on a CCS as you called it. It would be less pathetic for me. Was always content being a hermit but now I have the realization I'm really alone. And considering I'm no longer at school and freelance from home, no idea how to make new friends.
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People who are betrayed are not pathetic. Those that betray are pathetic, and have no sense of loyalty or even know what a true relationship/friendship is.
Regardless of any background story surrounding this short of him revenge f*%king your GF because you banged-out his ex, he's wrong. There is shit you simply DO NOT DO to friends when it comes to their exes. Reason: Even if this is platonic, which 90% it is not, he still made this decision knowing how it would affect you, or not caring enough to think about how it would affect you.
This is not someone you can have a close relationship friendship with.