Is this wrong?

[Typhoid]

Ok.


So Tonight my best friend came over, who happens to be a girl.


We were both sitting on the chair at my computer (its like a couch chair) and then we fell asleep together.

She fell asleep on my chest, and I had my arm around her, and our legs were all interlocked and stuff.

We were like that until about half an hour ago when I picked her up and carried her to my bed to put her to sleep.

She has a boyfriend who she is working things out with right now.


Anyways, personal deal or not, just a general question.

Do you think its wrong to cuddle with someone in a relationship?

Does being best friends with that person make you exempt from any badness cuddling can create?

[Shadow Fox]

Story of my life...being the "friend" alongside a woman in/out/near a relationship can cause confusion, usually at the expense of the female involved.

The true, morally correct answer: tell her you need to step back from her, especially with you spending time like that. She'll probably be pissed, but as long as she understands you're looking out for her best interest, she'll eventually get over it, and probably respect you more.

The also true, but morally wrong anser: take the ride as it comes. She's not your girl, and you're not her man. Her issues are not yours, so take best advantage of the situation as you can...

BTW, the last part didn't come from me.

Yeah, not from me...

[Typhoid]

Thing is.


I cant just take time away from her.



Me and her are best friends.


Its not like we have feelings for eachother, because we dont.

Its just one of those being totally comfortable with eachother things (or so it is from my end anyways).

[GiMpY-wAnNaBe]

i think that if you do it as friends that's fine, as long as her boyfriend doesn't find out. I've got some friends that are so close they might as well be sisters and same thing goes, just because something like that happens, doesn't mean that anythings happening.

[Jonbo298]

I dont see an issue with that basically. As long as it wasnt any farther then that. Sometimes women need something like that even if they have a boyfriend probably just to have someone to hold them to reassure things will be fine.

If the boyfriend somehow finds out, just explain nothing came about. But I doubt something like this would get out anyways since nothing happened.

But if it was me, I'd not worry too much. It wasnt anything over the line, IMO

[Typhoid]

You know I also meant in general to you guys right?

haha...I didnt mean for this to be a "solve my problem" thing.

It was just what appeared to be a nice segway to a question.




Plus. Ive decided I dont care. We dont like eachother as far as I know. Good enugh for me. All our friends assume we're ****ing anyways.


But if this didnt have to do with me, I wouldnt see a problem with it either, unless something happened. Especially between best friends of the opposite sex. (I stated opposite sex because Gimpy said he has friends who could be sisters. I would make a damn manly girl.)

[Crash]

I dont think it is a good idea. But you know what, if I were the other guy, i'd be pissed at her, not you.

You can cuddle, all you want... she should tell you no, if not, than ... *shrugs*

all I can say, I sure wouldn't want my girl cuddling with anything but me...

[Dylflon]

Originally Posted by Crash

I dont think it is a good idea. But you know what, if I were the other guy, i'd be pissed at her, not you.

You can cuddle, all you want... she should tell you no, if not, than ... *shrugs*

all I can say, I sure wouldn't want my girl cuddling with anything but me...

Somebody is the jealous type. :o

[Su-Yin]

Im with crash..."not a good idea"
cuddling can be dangerous when shes vunerable

[Happydude]

i am the jealous type, so i would have to say cuddling with her isn't a good idea. even if you are bestest friends, hugging is fine and all...but cuddling and sleeping together is a no no.

[Jonbo298]

Is anyone else feeling all warm and fuzzy inside after reading this thread so far