Let's talk about girls! - Page 7

Swan · 02-08-2009, 03:53 PM

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Originally Posted by KillerGremlin

Is it about how you suck at life?

More or less

Combine 017 · 02-08-2009, 04:25 PM

So it turns out she didnt want to get into a relationship, she just wanted to have sex.

So I nailed her.

And Earl sucks at life.

BreakABone · 02-08-2009, 06:09 PM

For once, I am the victim in all of this.

*Evil stare at Swan*

ZebraRampage · 02-08-2009, 09:18 PM

I have a story for you guys, and it's the reason I haven't been here all this time!

Okay, so I just recently broke up with my girlfriend that I was with since October of 2006. I've had problems with her for a long time..and it was getting really out of hand. I don't really feel like typing all of the details, but I'll guide you all to the reasons as to why I haven't been here for a year and a half.

So basically, at the start of the relationship, Sarah (my most recent ex) and I would talk a lot, and it so happened that when I talked about my past I talked about my previous ex-girlfriend to her a lot. I would complain about a lot of things that I went through in that relationship to Sarah, and over time she got sick of hearing it all.

So after about five months, she decided she wanted me to stop talking about her, and also decided that she never wanted to hear anybody talk about her. This was in March of 2007. When summer came along, she was so bothered by everything that I said about my ex that she wanted the whole damn story so she could be clear about it all. But by this point I didn't want to mention any more details about my ex, so I started lying about things to just get the whole thing over with, and I also lied because there are just some things better left unsaid.

She of course found out I was lying, and managed to get the truth out about everything, so that really ruined our trust. At this point, she wanted me to get rid of any possession I had from the time period that I was with my ex. That meant everything too. She even found out that I wrote things about my ex girlfriend in Gametavern, and you can ask bond about how I had to ask him to delete those posts, since they were too old for me to access. And that's why she didn't want me coming back here.

So basically, it was a relationship based on no trust after that, and here I am, and that's why I haven't been here.

Bond · 02-08-2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by ZebraRampage

She even found out that I wrote things about my ex girlfriend in Gametavern, and you can ask bond about how I had to ask him to delete those posts, since they were too old for me to access. And that's why she didn't want me coming back here.

I had no idea that's why you wanted me to delete the posts! I delete anything no questions asked.

That's a pretty crazy story, though. Definitely doesn't sound healthy, and it's good that you are past it!

KillerGremlin · 02-09-2009, 03:08 AM

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Originally Posted by BreakABone

For once, I am the victim in all of this.

*Evil stare at Swan*

How are you the victim?

Anyway, I find that when people get in serious relationships the guy has to limit intimate relationships with other girls a lot of the time. I mean you don't see married guys going off to spend an afternoon with their close female friend very often.

GameMaster · 02-08-2009, 09:26 PM

That's quite a story. Sounds like she was pretty insecure. I mean, to forbid from you visiting an online video game forum, that's just crazy.

And you better never leave us for a girl again

And someone please resize that damn picture. I had to scroll side to side to read his story.

The Germanator · 02-08-2009, 11:07 PM

Interesting story, Zebra. I oddly had something relatively similar happen to me with my ex, though she was jealous of a girl that I was only friends with and never romantically linked with. I once left my Facebook account on and she had seen that I had been messaging the female friend a couple of times...There was really nothing bad in the messages, but she kind of freaked. It certainly wasn't a high point in the relationship.

Anyway, I really wish I had something new to bring to the table, but my love life has been pretty dreadful since my ex and I broke up almost a year ago. I kind of have a thing for an old college flame, but I've seen her a few times and I don't see any interest from her. I really need to move out of my 'rent's house and move to Philly or something so I can actually meet people.

The only true positive that came out of it is that it inspired me to lose weight and I'm now easily in the best shape of my life. So at least theoretically I should look more attractive to the ladies.

Jonbo298 · 02-09-2009, 06:46 AM

Wow Zebra, helluva story there. Good that it should hopefully stay in the past now.

As for me in relations to this thread, I have nothing. Not that I expect there to be anytime soon....

KillerGremlin · 02-09-2009, 04:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Jonbo298

Wow Zebra, helluva story there. Good that it should hopefully stay in the past now.

As for me in relations to this thread, I have nothing. Not that I expect there to be anytime soon....

you have that yummy signature

Jonbo298 · 02-09-2009, 10:53 PM

That's a dream never fulfilled

Meeting her once in person was great even if just a quick autograph.

BreakABone · 02-15-2009, 03:01 PM

I'm sure KG knows part of this story, but what's everyone's opinion on pursuing females that are within close proximity of you.

Meaning like someone you work with or live in the same building or have like similar majors. Someone you see often enough.

Bube · 02-15-2009, 03:45 PM

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Originally Posted by BreakABone

I'm sure KG knows part of this story, but what's everyone's opinion on pursuing females that are within close proximity of you.

Meaning like someone you work with or live in the same building or have like similar majors. Someone you see often enough.

I think it's good that you get to know them in their everyday life. And just hanging out is sometimes better than going on dates.

When things start getting more serious, it's both good and bad, depending on your definition of relationship. Seeing them all the time should be a good, even great thing. But you should still leave room for them to breathe.

And if things go well, but end not so good, that's really bad. It just hurts too much.

Angrist · 02-16-2009, 06:26 AM

Could either be really good or really bad. I wouldn't hold back just because she was close... Although I'd probably take it extra slow.

thatmariolover · 02-16-2009, 10:29 PM

I think that you can't be afraid of a little drama. Maybe it'll blow up in your face, but at least you're doing something. And if something more reasonable comes around in the meanwhile, be man enough to snatch it up and say you're sorry or let it pass.

Then again, who am I to give advice? I have the most masochistic love life of anybody I know.