very fine line....

[Blackmane]

I agree with you. I think that alot of people mistake having a crush, or especially feeling infatuated, with actually being in love. All these people getting married so fast is people thinking they're in love when really, they are just infatuated with each other. That is why many marriages don't last anymore, because they are based on infatuation and not true everlasting love.

[Vampyr]

Originally Posted by Blackmane

I agree with you. I think that alot of people mistake having a crush, or especially feeling infatuated, with actually being in love. All these people getting married so fast is people thinking they're in love when really, they are just infatuated with each other. That is why many marriages don't last anymore, because they are based on infatuation and not true everlasting love.

And it's way too easy to get a divorce now days anyway.

When I see teenagers getting married, I just shake my head at the naivity. Silly silly people. I believe that true love between teenagers is extremely rare, hardly ever happening, if ever.

It's not love, it's adolescent teen lust. And if it does by some miracle happen to be love, I don't think you can truely realize it for that until you are older.

Then again I don't have "crush's" either. I havn't "liked" someone for nearly two years. I laugh inside when I here people saying who they "like". I like to think I've out grown that. I take things as they come, and never limit myself to "liking" one girl. I'll flirt and date multiple people, unless we have mutually agreed to be in a "relationship".