Two better than one?

[MuGen]

It makes sense if he is her EX and not seeing him, but it's another thing to have sex with him, give him false hope, and go and sleep with someone else and on the first date.

If you are friends with her, and talk to her sometimes then I would leave it alone.
If you guys are good friends and share things with each other I would go up to her and ask her if she knew what she was doing? And if she knew what she was doing would have consequences? Then I'd tell her to stop the insanity or tell both guys that she's playing them. But then again you don't know if she's confused, or playing them.

Ask her if her feelings are genuine or if she's just messing around.

[Happydude]

ok...this is my suggestion:

tell her EX to stop trying...it will only hurt him more.

no point in saying anything about the guy from the first date because that was her choice and she will say "my ex didn't count...it was before my date...blah blah blah..."

frankly, i don't see how any of this should concern you...but if you're good friends with her...or any type of friend, tell her boyfriend to stop trying, because it will never work out (do not specify a reason), and also because if he doesn't stop...it might lead to both your room mate and her EX and her "current" to get hurt.

also...how old is your room mate? you said she slept with your godmother's brother...how much older would that make him? if it's like a 10 year age gap...i would definetly talk to her about it.

there isn't much point of taking to her because no matter what you say she will either say it's none of your business, or she will just listen to you and keep doing what she's doing. you talking to her will not make her stop.

but that's just my suggestion...your choice whether to listen to it or not. good luck.

[DimHalo]

I feel i should talk to her because we are good friends and she has chosen to confide in me so many times. It is difficult for me to talk to the guys because they don't live here and I don't talk to them outside of when they here at our house.

Happydude: my room mate, my godmother, and I are all 22. The guy is 20.


Thanks for all the advice guys. I'm still not sure exactly what to say or how to say it, but i've got some more confidence in it now. We'll see how things turn out tonight and then maybe i'll approach her.

[GameMaster]

So, how'd it go? Did our advice help?

[DimHalo]

I haven't talked to her yet. I was sick last night so I didn't talk to her. But the guy didn't show up, so I don't know what the deal is.

[GameMaster]

I hope you feel better soon.

[DimHalo]

Thanks




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