Is this wrong?

Jonbo298 · 10-09-2005, 10:46 AM

I dont see an issue with that basically. As long as it wasnt any farther then that. Sometimes women need something like that even if they have a boyfriend probably just to have someone to hold them to reassure things will be fine.

If the boyfriend somehow finds out, just explain nothing came about. But I doubt something like this would get out anyways since nothing happened.

But if it was me, I'd not worry too much. It wasnt anything over the line, IMO

Typhoid · 10-09-2005, 11:08 AM

You know I also meant in general to you guys right?

haha...I didnt mean for this to be a "solve my problem" thing.

It was just what appeared to be a nice segway to a question.

Plus. Ive decided I dont care. We dont like eachother as far as I know. Good enugh for me. All our friends assume we're ****ing anyways.

But if this didnt have to do with me, I wouldnt see a problem with it either, unless something happened. Especially between best friends of the opposite sex. (I stated opposite sex because Gimpy said he has friends who could be sisters. I would make a damn manly girl.)

manasecret · 10-09-2005, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Typhoid

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It was just what appeared to be a nice segway to a question.

Nitpick Alert!

It's spelled segue. I only pick it out because I'm learning Italian and it came up recently.

DimHalo · 10-09-2005, 11:48 AM

Not in response to Typhoid's situation because he's already informed us that he knows.

But from my own personal experience, it all depends on the feelings between the two people involved. I've tried cuddling with a friend, but it has always led to trouble (or something great, depending on how you look at it). Of course, that has been with someone who I liked and who liked me back.

Dylflon · 10-09-2005, 01:41 PM

I don't really see an issue. I've taken naps with my best friend who is also a girl who has a boyfriend.

As long as there's no sexual motivations behind it I wouldn't feel bad about it.

Jason1 · 10-09-2005, 04:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Dylflon

I don't really see an issue. I've taken naps with my best friend who is also a girl who has a boyfriend.

As long as there's no sexual motivations behind it I wouldn't feel bad about it.

Yea, especially if you have no physical attraction to this girl. I mean, if you were wanting to get with her or something, then we might have a bigger issue, but if you had no desire or anything like that I see nothing wrong with this.

Professor S · 10-09-2005, 04:47 PM

Don't worry, you are firmly in the friend zone. You said that she and her boyfriend were working things out when she cuddled with you. This is a common occurence with female friends.

You are her emotional tampon. Her boyfriend is most likely not meeting an emotional need that you do. What this means is that she is leaning on you for emotional suppprt when he can't or won't. When her crisis ends, the cuddling will stop and she'll act like nothing ever happened.