Is this wrong?

Dylflon · 10-09-2005, 04:49 PM

The cuddling doesn't always stop.

Some girls are just really cuddly.

Professor S · 10-09-2005, 05:07 PM

There is a window of opportunity here, Typhoid. You have to truly ask yourself what you want from your friendship. If you want her, go for her... now.

If you wait, you will remain an emotional tampon and solidify yourself in the friend zone.

Typhoid · 10-09-2005, 06:19 PM

Ew.

Solidified Tampons.

Anyways.

I dont know what I want, is the thing.

Shes a great girl, and super cute, and super nice.

But shes my best friend.

Oh well.

What happnes happens.

Thanks all.

Dyne · 10-09-2005, 06:58 PM

If she's your best friend, half the battle has been won. Now you just need to storm the fortress(1)!

(1)Interpret "storm the fortress" as you like.

Jonbo298 · 10-09-2005, 07:33 PM

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Originally Posted by Dyne

If she's your best friend, half the battle has been won. Now you just need to storm the fortress(1)!

(1)Interpret "storm the fortress" as you like.

The fortress of solitude!

Dylflon · 10-09-2005, 09:17 PM

The "fortress" is her lady parts and the storm is...well...you get the picture.

Jonbo298 · 10-09-2005, 11:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Dylflon

The "fortress" is her lady parts and the storm is...well...you get the picture.

o_O Thanks for pointing out what we already knew

Ginkasa · 10-09-2005, 10:45 PM

If she's your best friend, you should not try to go out with her if she's already got a boyfriend, unless she starts coming on to you first (in which case, you should tell her to break up with her boyfriend first).

Although, if you two really are best friends, I don't see why you aren't going out. I can not understand why someone would want to go out with someone who wasn't their best friend. It defeats the purpose, I think (unless all you want is sex...I suppose...).

/me shrugs and walks away

Typhoid · 10-09-2005, 11:42 PM

I alos believe the whole general "if you're best friends, why not date?" thing. Because thats what I've told all my girl friends, is that its better to date someone you know, than some random girl you've slurrishly spoken to at a few parties.

But in practice, the dating best friends thing is difficult. Neither of you want to ruin the friendship, and are both scared it wont work. Based on past friendships/relationships with friends.

GameMaster · 10-10-2005, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Typhoid

But in practice, the dating best friends thing is difficult. Neither of you want to ruin the friendship, and are both scared it wont work. Based on past friendships/relationships with friends.

Whatever you do, DO NOT attempt a romantic relationship with her. It may seem like beautiful idea at first, but feelings will get hurt and hearts will get broken.

Soulmates and lovers are not always the same person. It may seem like you guys are destined now, but eventually you will both come to realize that what you have goes beyond friendship, beyond lovers. It's forever. And that's something more valuable than all the money of the world.

Neo · 10-10-2005, 12:15 AM

There is nothing wrong with it. If the boyfriend trusts her then he shouldn't get upset by it. If he does that's his own problem. Not saying you should tell him - no need to risk stirring things up unless it becomes necessary. Both of my best friends are girls (gay ones actually) and their partners know that my relationship with them is completely platonic. I think of them like sisters.

Just be careful that she doesn't start using you as an emotional crutch when things don't go her way with her boyfriend.

GameMaster · 10-09-2005, 10:04 PM

I don't think anything is wrong with cuddling between friends. The jury hereby finds you innocent.