Is this wrong?

Ginkasa · 10-09-2005, 10:45 PM

If she's your best friend, you should not try to go out with her if she's already got a boyfriend, unless she starts coming on to you first (in which case, you should tell her to break up with her boyfriend first).

Although, if you two really are best friends, I don't see why you aren't going out. I can not understand why someone would want to go out with someone who wasn't their best friend. It defeats the purpose, I think (unless all you want is sex...I suppose...).

/me shrugs and walks away

Typhoid · 10-09-2005, 11:42 PM

I alos believe the whole general "if you're best friends, why not date?" thing. Because thats what I've told all my girl friends, is that its better to date someone you know, than some random girl you've slurrishly spoken to at a few parties.

But in practice, the dating best friends thing is difficult. Neither of you want to ruin the friendship, and are both scared it wont work. Based on past friendships/relationships with friends.

GameMaster · 10-10-2005, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Typhoid

But in practice, the dating best friends thing is difficult. Neither of you want to ruin the friendship, and are both scared it wont work. Based on past friendships/relationships with friends.

Whatever you do, DO NOT attempt a romantic relationship with her. It may seem like beautiful idea at first, but feelings will get hurt and hearts will get broken.

Soulmates and lovers are not always the same person. It may seem like you guys are destined now, but eventually you will both come to realize that what you have goes beyond friendship, beyond lovers. It's forever. And that's something more valuable than all the money of the world.

DimHalo · 10-10-2005, 01:57 AM

I would like to comment on the dating your friends thing:

Keep in mind that women are not always as innocent as they may seem in the friendship situation. There is a possibility that there is, or had been at a time, some other motive. While this is by no means a generalization for all situations. It does occur, and more often than one might think. So, even if a girl seems like she is just your friend she may have something else in mind.

Dyne · 10-10-2005, 02:20 AM

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Originally Posted by jeepnut's slave

I would like to comment on the dating your friends thing:

Keep in mind that women are not always as innocent as they may seem in the friendship situation. There is a possibility that there is, or had been at a time, some other motive. While this is by no means a generalization for all situations. It does occur, and more often than one might think. So, even if a girl seems like she is just your friend she may have something else in mind.

I agree.

You should always be friends first, at the very least.

DimHalo · 10-10-2005, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by Dyne

I agree.

You should always be friends first, at the very least.

Totally agreed. It is the best way to really get to know a person.

Xantar · 10-10-2005, 02:22 AM

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Originally Posted by jeepnut's slave

I would like to comment on the dating your friends thing:

Keep in mind that women are not always as innocent as they may seem in the friendship situation. There is a possibility that there is, or had been at a time, some other motive. While this is by no means a generalization for all situations. It does occur, and more often than one might think. So, even if a girl seems like she is just your friend she may have something else in mind.

Well, the guys have some news for you: it's the same for us.

*runs away*

Dylflon · 10-10-2005, 03:01 AM

Tee hee.

/me runs away also

Typhoid · 10-10-2005, 02:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jeepnut's slave

I would like to comment on the dating your friends thing:

Keep in mind that women are not always as innocent as they may seem in the friendship situation. There is a possibility that there is, or had been at a time, some other motive. While this is by no means a generalization for all situations. It does occur, and more often than one might think. So, even if a girl seems like she is just your friend she may have something else in mind.

Now see....why did you have to go and say something like that?

Swan · 10-10-2005, 11:46 PM

Man, I need to Storm the Fortress...

Typhoid · 10-10-2005, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by deejzguy

Man, I need to Storm the Fortress...

The only way you can storm a fortress is if the doors are too big to close.

Otherwise, you're just on the outside looking in wondering why you cant go in and play with the others.