She touches my arm a lot and laughs at my sometimes bad jokes.

The eye-contact is great.
Yeah good point. Thanks for the advice about playing ball.

Maybe I better ask her to do something fun. But I'd rather ask it in person and not over the mail. And I don't see her often enough for that. Maybe I should call her and then ask.
(darn, your post made me feel pretty stupid... but I needed that, thanks!)