That "friends for life" thing is total bullshit, to let you all know.
When a girl says "I like you, but we're too good of friends now to ruin that" is a blanket fallback of "I don't like you". They're your friend, so they don't want to hurt you - obviously.
Timing, realistically - means nothing. Especially of a kiss with a girl friend. If there's attraction, timing is null and void. If there's no attraction, you'll get the "we're too good of friends" speech.
I agree with the whole "Dont try for a girlfriend" thing. Don't. Pointless. Try for a friend. If it turns to something more, awesome. If not - then at least you have a friend.
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There comes a time in your life when for some reason, you don't want to look for friends, but a relationship. These are desperate times. And you need a relationship in these times, making it even more desperate.
That "friends for life" thing is total bullshit, to let you all know.
When a girl says "I like you, but we're too good of friends now to ruin that" is a blanket fallback of "I don't like you". They're your friend, so they don't want to hurt you - obviously.
Timing, realistically - means nothing. Especially of a kiss with a girl friend. If there's attraction, timing is null and void. If there's no attraction, you'll get the "we're too good of friends" speech.
I agree with the whole "Dont try for a girlfriend" thing. Don't. Pointless. Try for a friend. If it turns to something more, awesome. If not - then at least you have a friend.
Should we analyze the social aspects of guys having female friends?
It would make for entertaining discussion.
I'll update when there's news in the following weeks.
That's the problem. There hasn't been any news.
Hm, not really true. We ended up mailing (joking really) about kids, and she didn't reply for weeks. So I figured I had scared her, which is probably partly true.
So after a few weeks I asked her for something fun again (this time with others, as she had suggested), but she couldn't come. She mailed me back, said that she didn't really see us happening by the way.
I said that's ok, I wouldn't have too high expectations and we would see what happened.
Now it's almost 2 months since I've seen her, and I've "lost that lovin' feelin'." I still like her a lot, but I see things in perspective now. Maybe we're not a good match. I'll just see if the feeling returns when we hang out again.
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