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Originally Posted by thatmariolover
As for myself, I would get married if I could find the right girl. But I will not settle for familiar or easy. And the fear of being alone has not troubled me yet. I admit, it's discouraging when you meet so many girls that want to rush into marriage with the first guy to tie a string to their heart. I'm not afraid of being alone, but I want to find somebody to spend my time with because it makes life better. I need to find a girl that thinks along the same lines, and at 23 there just aren't many of them.
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I feel the same way as you. I've been single for about a month now, and I'm not afraid of being alone, but it does kind of suck not having someone to be intimate with and spend time with.
You're also right about how tough it is to find the right girl for you, especially if you want somebody unique, and who thinks the same way, and probably has similar mannerisms. I'm looking for the same thing, because I know that that will make me feel even closer to her, which will make me feel more comfortable, like I am with my family. So in the end, hopefully she'll feel like family to me.
Maybe that's another way of interpreting why you'd get married too. Maybe it's just all about the continuation of family. I believe that this point was kind of said already, and I did read all the posts, but it was a while ago and I don't feel like going through them again to see if someone else said it. Anyway, I kind of blanked out now, so maybe I'll come back later and add some more thoughts.