Dating a friend?

Kitana85 · 09-06-2003, 10:56 AM

My only advice is BE CAREFUL! Make sure that you move slowly enough, that if you find the relationship isn't working, you can still preserve the friendship. After you've made out with someone who used to be like your brother, its ofimes hard to go back.

but good luck and congrats.

GiMpY-wAnNaBe · 09-06-2003, 01:46 PM

i have a friend that i've known for the past 6 years that things are getting a bit close... its weird because i never looked at her in that light until like a month ago....and then i wonder whether she feels the same way, and i'm afraid 2 ask cuz i don't wanna ruin the friendship

Dylflon · 09-06-2003, 02:44 PM

I have feelings for my best friend (who is a girl). I've known her since I was 2 weeks old. I would go for it but since I moved we live 2 towns away from eachother.

It's weird having these sort of feelings. You know you probably shouldn't but you can't help it.

If I get into USC she'll probably move to California with me so we'll see what happens. Oh....and it's a possibility that Dyne might come to California too. Game design colleges and whatnot.

Ginkasa · 09-06-2003, 02:54 PM

No...Not yet..

-_-

*shrugs and walks away*

Perfect Stu · 09-06-2003, 03:34 PM

I had a close friend who sequentially turned into my 'girlfriend' when I started liking girls in 'that way' and vice versa (I was in grade 5, she was in grade 6). We stayed together for over a year...puppy love

...and we've stayed fairly good friends...she's actually attending the University of South Carolina on a volleyball scholorship. Chatted with her yesterday, even...

GameMaster · 09-06-2003, 04:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dylflon

I have feelings for my best friend (who is a girl). I've known her since I was 2 weeks old. I would go for it but since I moved we live 2 towns away from eachother.

It's weird having these sort of feelings. You know you probably shouldn't but you can't help it.

If I get into USC she'll probably move to California with me so we'll see what happens. Oh....and it's a possibility that Dyne might come to California too. Game design colleges and whatnot.

Give me a PM, when you come out here and we could meet up or something and have a Smash Bros. Battle

DimHalo · 09-06-2003, 10:19 PM

All I can say is be really careful, you wouldn't want to lose a good friendship. But at the same time, it could turn out to be great. It all depends on how you both feel (so talk a lot). And don't let things get too far if you start to doubt it.

Jewels · 09-07-2003, 01:59 AM

its kind of hard to start a conversation with someone that you already know so much about :P my friends say congrats to me...... i tell them, wait until we've been together for a month and then CONGRAT ME lol

Jonbo298 · 09-07-2003, 04:24 PM

The difference between friends and dating is special privelges

That's about it.

It's probably why it still feels like your friends and not datin. But I'm no expert